Why Marrying a Filipino
For Filipino, they believe that without their mother their life is nothing. A mother is one of the best things in this world that love us the most and care us with so much affection and love us unconditionally. Even if we have our father around us a mothers love is different from the other. Here in the Philippines, we look up all the single mother who raise their children alone without a father figure around them. That is how strong a single mother, they stand up alone, they work hard, they take care of their children alone and she can give their children need alone, that is a single mother struggle every day of their life but continue to live happy in front of their children. No women want to raise their children alone. And no parents want’s that their children get pregnant out of wedlock. However, even if there are many single mothers at present they raise their children in the best that they could and have good moral value when they grow old.
A single mother is the one who does not have a husband or a partner and living alone with her children. Being a single mother have all the custody of her children. She is the one who raises her children and supports the needs of her children alone. A single mother has many responsibilities in terms of her children needs. She is the one who takes care of her children and supports her children alone. A single mother has a strong character and very independent they don’t need a man in their life just to complete them as a woman. They can survive without a husband or partner in life because they know that someone needed them and depend on them. Filipino single mother is the strongest person.
There is a lot of reason why women become single mother in their life. Some chose to become a single mother, other is out of wedlock, and some have no chose but to be a single mother even if their child has a father because of the separation. Some cause of the broken family and the children left to the mother alone. Filipino single mother doesn’t choose to become a single mother and raise their children alone without a father beside them, but then because of some circumstances, they become a single mother even if they don’t like it. No one like to be a single mother in their life but Filipino women have a very strong personality that they can handle everything that came along with their life. And most men believe that women can live alone without them.
Ther are many advantages and disadvantage of being a single mother all around the world not only here in the Philippines.
We all know that being a single mother is not as easy as other parents out there. They sacrifice all their happiness to make sure that her children will be in a good life and good hands. Other single mother chose to stay single mother for the sake of their child future and safeness. Because at this present many Filipino men sometimes abuse the child of their partner, they also psychically hurt the child when the mother is not around. That is why a single mother did not choose to live with other men because of some bad news happening in the Philippines about sexual abuse. Another sacrifice of a single mother is they have no time for herself, They also think for her childcare before her happiness. After working they go straight to go home just to know if her child was safe and okay. They also had a financial sacrifice. Like the things that she wants to buy for her self but rather she chose to buy things for her child. Especially those teenagers who become a single mother at their very young ages. They really suffer a lot compare to those adult women who become a single mother. Teenagers single mother is not yet ready to become a mother and to handle all the responsibilities yet they keep the child and take care of their babies to become a responsible mother and father at the same time. A lot of sacrifices for a single mother and they can face it all for the sake of her children’s happiness.
Filipino people salute single mother in the Philippines. However, being a single mother is not easy in many circumstances like how to take care of her child alone, how to be a mother at the same time how to be a father to her child. But once you become a mother you become stronger than you expected. You become strong to face all the trials and problems that will come along by yourself beside your child. And that will help you to be more independent and wiser because you have a child to protect and need your love and care. Being a single mother is a very challenging role in her life. You need to prioritize your child’s care before anything else. A lot of sacrifice in the life of a single mother just make sure that her children are in good hands and give the best for the better future of her child. However, many single women believe that every child is a gift from above. Taking good care of them, love them, giving the best that you can, and seeing them grow is the most rewarding jobs that every mother feel especially if you alone are the one ho manage and raise a child. It doesn’t mean how rich or poor is the mother is but the feeling is still the same. You will feel that even if your life become a mess before your child’s born but when you see your child that’s the time you will thank God because it is the gift that you cannot ignore nor cannot deny. Being a mother even if you are a single one who has someone beside you is one of the best feelings that no one can fill in your heart. Here in the Philippines, you will realize how your family supports you in a difficult time of your life and that is to become a single mother. Every member of your family is there for you and willing to help in the best that they can, emotional, physical, and financial aspect of your the life of being a single mother your family will never leave you nor forsake you when they know that you will become a mother without a father.